Parental Orders

The idea to write this article came to me in connection with specific case studies. I was approached by a young woman Katya, who complained of depression, constant fatigue, tearfulness for any reason, and often without occasion. ‘I have a loving husband, two small children whom I love very much, but for some time, I seemed to have lost with them an emotional connection. For no reason, no reason at all annoying, shouting at them. I left the profession, which was very successful.

She was a Professional Actress. Success was a long time. But one day, finding themselves at the height of his fame, she was frightened, I do not know why, what for this success may come in the form of public atonement – the disease I or my family. I unexpectedly dropped around the scene. And now I feel lost, unnecessary. I live as though when – it may be a child, was instructed: do not be meaningful, not to succeed, not to be is not to be normal, do not belong ‘How do I get out of this? What is happening to me? ” As it turned out in the process of psychotherapy, the picture of life (as indeed, the lives of most people), influenced by the so-called parenting orders.

They are essential for human life. R. and M. Guldingi treat parents as prescription messages transmitted by parents because of their (parents) own problems: anger, fear, confusion, unhappiness, anxiety, failure, etc. In his book ‘Healing the new solution’ M. and R. Guldingi give a list of basic parenting orders and taken on the basis of their children’s decisions. Injunction ‘do not do’ usually give your child jerking fear parents, who forbid him the usual things: climb, crawl, run, etc., infecting his self-doubt. As an adult man with such a prescription can not take their own decisions. Injunction ‘do not be’ – one of the worst, because in the future may produce in a person prone to self-effacement one way or another. It often sounds like this: ‘If it was not you, I would have long ago moved away from your father ‘,’ If you were not there, I would be easier to live and not be pulling the strap ‘,’ You’re so hard to be born, that I have since sick ‘, etc. etc. Injunction ‘do not be a significant’ often arises when, tugging children, parents say: ‘Children should be quiet and discreet. ” Prescription of ‘not Bring’ gives parents often during games. When the answer to win a child, they are offended, they break contact, as if telling: ‘do not be winning, and not ‘ Injunction ‘do not be a’ often give the child ‘not the’ gender (eg, waiting for a boy and a girl), to satisfy their unfulfilled expectations begin to clothe and educate this girl as a boy. Prescription of ‘not whether normal ‘and’ do not be healthy ‘get the children taken care of or love only when they are very sick. Psychosomatic symptoms. If a person is not being assisted to overcome stressful situations, is gradually emerging, so-called psychosomatic. Psychopathy. Psychopathy itself terapevtichno and entails a positive change in many patients.

Give Children A Holiday

What to give your child a birthday? Toy? Book? New clothes? But all that he bought and on ordinary days what to do to remember your birthday child and his friends? Give your child a holiday! Of course, this does not simple. But we will be happy to help! Make the holiday a success be forewarned guests (no later than 1 week) Arrange for gifts. To make your guests do not wrestle, but you do not get unpleasant "surprises" better to negotiate with the parents of children invited, it would be better to give (and vice versa) Consider the scenario. Children's festival consists of: a) meeting the guests and giving presents b) bright greeting show-program) holiday table d) independent games kids g) leads guests guests spectacular greeting, photo session and the table are the four integral element of the holiday. That's one show in honor of the birthday child and make a holiday truly striking and important – individual. The duration of the show program depends on age: at an early age (1-3 years) – less than half an hour for the younger preschool children (3-5 years) from half an hour to an hour for the senior preschool age children (5-7 years) 1-2 hours Depending on the organization of children's Holiday Children's Table is significantly different from an adult. If the adults at the table to spend most of the time and a lot of eating, filling meal break in the conversation, the children's cooking beguiling little delights. .

Florian Schudy

Mid-19th century people have passion for it also in Germany give away discovered by Valentine’s day cards. To meet the strong demand of the customers, the German greeting cards publishers have designed a series of post cards and greeting cards. While the English greeting cards shops dominated by a dark red colour on the Valentine’s day cards, Valentine’s day cards of the German greeting cards publishers are usually bright red. Meanwhile the color is in recent years white an increasing popular on Valentine’s day. This is true not only for greeting cards, but also for the packaging colors of boxes of chocolates and other typical Valentine’s day gifts. While the English have a fondness for cartoons and illustrations on their Valentine’s Day greeting cards, people in Germany mostly buy greeting cards with photos of poetic and profound quotations on the subject of love. With regard to the purchase channel, there is yet another big difference; between the two countries There are in England for the greeting cards buy a trend then, that the greeting cards primarily in the stationary Buy greeting cards shop, order the Germans their greeting cards increasingly about the greeting cards shops on the Internet.

A particularly wide range of greeting cards for Valentine’s day there are greeting cards shop by Grusskartenladen.de. Especially for people who are professionally strong clamped or who live in rural areas, the greeting card stores on the Internet have great added value. So, the cards offer and the variety of greeting cards of online stores is usually significantly larger than in the stationary shops in the country. For years, the retail can continuously increase sales on Valentine’s day. This is primarily due to a change of consciousness among consumers. Galt several years ago is still the mental model that the Valentine’s day is the day of love, so the setting is today more and more, that Valentine’s day is the day of joy. Therefore send more people on Valentine’s Day greeting cards to friends, family members or old work colleagues. Florian Schudy

Love Is Different …

Love is given not for everyone. Someone endowed with love, and someone she bypassed. Why is this happening? The ability to love depends on the mother, that is laid with the birth of a child. Mom is nursing her child, stroking gently, looking love talking to him. The kid feels that peace, that is my mother loves him, then there arises love to the world.

And this child will be happier and talent in love. Of course there will still layering on the character rights. Decor, relationships with peers, experience friendship or lack of it. If the mother of the child to cry does not run to him, once again not to take him in my arms, or kiss it up to you, the child of love in relationships with other people will be cold, aloof. Yesterday a child becomes a loving, respected be respectful, is often rejected by the suffering of love cynic. We learn how to: read, write, cook, and learn to love – such a task before him and do not set. It would be someone to love, and then no problems. But it turns out, the ability to love involves a great deal.

One love is a desire to grow spiritually and physically, to give strength for life, another love is yearning, desperation forces him go. After all, love – it must be prepared to take risks. You fall in love, and partner threw you and it's very painful. But life goes on and we must once again live with a raised head and open heart. Love requires us to openness, but it's also a risk. You open the heart to your partner, you have the assurance that your honesty is not never turn against you. Falling in love, you give your life, your happiness in the hands of another. You begin to envy of his mood, decision-making. How often do we agree on the relationship? Can you love and remain master of his life, his happiness, that's what even matter? There are dangers of love: fallen out of love, in love with the wrong, not love. This risk leads to suffering. Are you ready to cope with them. There is love – I want you to be happy, I want to get what I want. And there is love – I want to give you what you make happy. Look there difference? Love – is respect for the beloved, tolerance, respect for his hobbies (fishing, theater, etc.), taking care of him. And all this from the heart. To live fully and be happy to learn to manage their feelings, if necessary push them, stimulate, and if necessary a mute, ban. It's not just sovladet their feelings, but in reality, and each person, if he is a man capable of it.

Carlin Increases

CARLiN direct sales, are in luck. The leading franchise of stationery in Spain has two franchisees more in the provinces of Huesca and Barcelona. The two new entrepreneurs that have opted for the Ensign, Jose Antonio Martinez and Diego Perez, believe that the facilities offered by the company to the franchisees represent a plus for business, since it provides a great support in finding suppliers, something that speeds up and simplifies our work, especially at the beginning, underline. Because things, the Huesca franchisee repeated experience, Martinez is now in its third location. I started with a store in Barbastro, but soon realized the great niche market that had and I set out with the opening of the store of monsoon.

We passed the 70 m2 from the first to 130 m2 the second, because we had small and given the success that we had, we decided to open a third franchise that has the same surface says. In the case of the Catalan franchise, Diego Perez says that he saw in CARLiN a huge occasion of business, and the fact of not having to start from scratch, or find a new idea. They offered me an opportunity to develop myself in a field in which I have spent many years working, being my own boss and with very well-established business bases. The new Aragonese local lies in the Teruel Street no. 16 in the town of Binefar, while Mataro shop is located in the street Cami Ral No. 508 and has 90 m2.

Both franchisees coincide in highlighting that what differentiates the Ensign are competitive prices, with a modern design and quality products and unbeatable infrastructures that facilitate day to day by the speed and resources that we provide on any problem that may arise. Meeting needs as well things, Binefar franchise includes the HP PRINT STATION, a space of reprography service and digital printing with the contact seeks to provide more breadth of service, and with which we want to achieve a differentiation from the competition, explains Martinez. A service that also You will get to the catalan local since its franchisee believes that it is something that is within the concept of CARLiN offer a model of modern stationery that puts at the customer service the greatest number of possibilities in order to cover all the needs of consumers says Perez. With this, CARLiN demonstrates that a time of crisis can also be era of opportunities. To start a new business, or as in this case, opting to extend one with which are reaping good results. Note to journalists: for further information, request interviews or graphic material do not hesitate to contact Mirian Lopez Nuria Coronado Tfno: 91 657 42 81 Original author and source of the article.